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How To Succeed With Woman

How to Approach Women — Wed, 22 Jul 2009 22:21:50 +0000

A recent email came in with this question:

“How to succeed with woman…”

I think he was trying to ask, “how do I succeed with women?” or maybe “how do I succeed with a woman?”

Look, this isn’t a 3rd grade English class, so let’s get to the core of this guy’s question which is having success with the ladies…

And what guy doesn’t want that, eh?

It’s likely that the guy who emailed is making mistakes with the ladies, and wondering why he’s not successful, so let’s cover the common mistakes guys make so you can be sure you’re not making them!

Always asking her what she wants:
Women actually hate this. Take the lead. Chicks dig that.
Calling her too frequently:
Makes you look clingy and needy. Stop it.
Letting her boss you around:
Guys get this one wrong all the time – they think that if they let her have her way, then she’ll “give up some candy” Wrong!

You have to man-up and show some leadership, and then you’ll have success with woman, I mean, with a woman.

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How To Succeed With Girls

How to Approach Women — Wed, 22 Jul 2009 03:59:40 +0000

Want to know how to succeed with girls? – Get ready to polish your “inner game”.

What the heck is “inner game”?

First let’s understand the opposite, which is Outer Game:

Outer game is simply how you portray yourself to women – that’s what you say to a girl, and especially how you say it.

In short, having (outer) game is how you communicate to girls, how you come across – are you boring or interesting? Gloomy or cheery?

Inner game is very similar, but it’s – yep, you guessed it – it’s inside… it’s how you communicate with yourself.

Your inner game is critical because if you’re boring on the inside, you can bet you’ll be boring on the outside too when you talk to girls.

If you believe inside yourself that you’re not worthy of meeting and dating and seducing and being with attractive girls, then you’re going to reflect that in your face, your voice, and your body posture and gestures.

So to have success with girls, you’ve got to get yourself and your beliefs and your attitudes to support that goal.

Action step:

Pick a day (today is the best day) and whenever you see a beautiful girl, instantly and immediately ask yourself this question in your head:

“I wonder if she’s good enough for me?” and then start to wonder about all the things that might be wrong with her.

You can do this for more than one day and this will completely shift your attitudes and beliefs into much more supportive beliefs to help you succeed with girls and get what you want.

How To Succeed With Women

How to Approach Women — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 23:38:55 +0000

If you want to know how to succeed with women, you first need to establish and define exactly what “success” means to you!

Success with women can be any of the following:

Getting a date
Getting a girlfriend
Getting laid
Getting married
Getting a girl to notice that you even exist!

You get the idea, right?

Each guy has to decide what “success” means to him, so that means what’s important to you, not according to your buddies or frat house brothers.

Think of it this way: in order to hit your target, you need to know what your target is in the first place!

If you went up to the ticket counter of an airline and said “give me an ticket on an airplane”, the first question they’re going to ask you is “where do you want to go?”

So, how do you define success with women?

Action Step:

Write it down. Yep, write it down.

Writing it down does something – I can’t explain it here, it’s not magic but there is something magical about writing something down.

It seems to focus you into what you’re doing, it makes your brain pay attention and take your desire more seriously.

Best of succcess with women!–that is, however you define success!

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