Fear is a double-edged sword – it cuts both ways…

That means that if you are feeling fear, when you approach a woman she’s going to sense that fear and it’s going to make her uncomfortable and want to get away from you.

Here’s the bottom line: women want to feel safe and secure around a man. No woman wants to be around a man that doesn’t make her feel safe and secure and protected.

When you’re approaching a woman and feeling confident, you make her feel safe and secure and protected.

She can feel your confidence, and it’s very, very attractive to her.

There’s no doubt about it. It doesn’t matter what other opinions people have about this. People can argue until they’re blue in the face about what women want or don’t want.

But meanwhile, back here in reality, when you’re with a woman and you have super-high levels of  confidence, she can feel it, and she likes it.

She likes it a lot.

Just ask women what they want in a man, and confidence makes it to every woman’s list.

Women will choose a confident man even over better looking, wealthier guys.

Women will choose a confident man who’s not even “her type”. She will choose YOU if you’re confident and you’re not even “her type”!

There’s simply no doubt about it: confidence is very attractive to women.

When you exude confidence, that’s very attractive to her, and can override and supersede all kinds of criteria she has in her mind about what “Mr. Right” should be like.

Here’s a quick and easy way to show why confidence is so important:

Imagine that I’m coming over to pick you up in my car to take you out to lunch. You get into the passenger seat and put your safety belt on.

As you do, you notice that my hands are shaking as I put the key into the ignition. I look at the steering wheel as if I’ve never seen one before in my entire
life. My face is white and has a look of panic on it. I look into the rear view mirror and let out a little yelp of fear.

You can see my whole body is starting to shake and I’m starting to sweat. I almost hit another car as I try to pull into traffic – the other driver honks his horn and shows me an angry middle finger.

At this point you want to get out of the car, don’t you?!

Do you want to be involved in a traffic accident and possibly get hurt or even killed because I lack confidence in my ability to drive a car? My nervousness and lack of confidence has made you feel uncomfortable, hasn’t it? In fact, my lack of confidence made you want to get away to somewhere safer, right?

It’s exactly the same with women. When you are nervous and shy, they pick up on that. They can feel it. They can sense it. She can feel that you’re not  comfortable and it makes her feel uncomfortable too.

When she feels uncomfortable, she wants to get away to somewhere safer. On the other hand, if you’re exuding super confidence, then she feels safe and secure. She feels comfortable and protected around you. She feels no need to try to get away from you.

Most guys will “try to be less nervous” but that never works. What you need to do is make your target confidence – you want be more of what you want to be, not less of what you don’t want to be.

Here’s exactly how to approach women without fear:

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How To Approach Women Without Fear