Talking to women on the street is different than any other place – here’s what you need to succeed:

If you’re walking down the street and see a woman you want to meet, you face different challenges than if she’s not moving, such as sitting in a coffee shop.

If you live in a big city, you have to overcome “the impersonal factor” because in large cities women tend to be more cautious.

So your first objective is to overcome any barriers you have to approaching women on the street. That means you’re going to have to accept that some women are simply not going to feel comfortable, will reject you outright, so you’re going to have to be prepared for that.

So with that in mind, try the direct approach: simply smile and say “hi” and stop just as you’re about to pass her and see if she stops too. Then you can start making conversation.

But that’s a very bold approach – so let’s try something a little easier… here’s what you do:

When you see a lady on the street you want to meet and talk to, just stop her and ask her for the time – just say “excuse me, can you please tell me what time it is?” or something simple and polite like that.

She’ll either tell you the time or she’ll say “I don’t know” and now you move to the next step which is some innocent compliment.

Giving compliments is covered in other articles here, but you’ll simply pay an innocent, non-sexual compliment followed by a question to get the conversation started such as “those are very nice earrings, is there a story behind how you got those?” – be creative but be sincere.

(Another idea is that after she tells you the time or “I don’t know” you can say something like “I didn’t really want to know the time, I just wanted to meet you” – this will flatter her with your boldness and sincerity).

Either way, from this point you can take things anywhere you want: ask for her phone number, ask her out for coffee, or whatever.

The main thing is to never come across as a weird guy, always come across as calm, in-control, and confident – and be sure to add a nice little friendly smile.

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