How To Talk To Women In Clubs
A good strategy for how to talk to women in clubs is to use the elements of that environment to your advantage.
Here are some examples:
Every nightclub in the world has an unwritten mission: play music at ear-splitting volume so no one can talk to each other.
Use that to your advantage! Lean in close to talk to women in clubs. Make your voice resonant, deep, and sexy when you ask her to dance.
Speaking of dancing, what better way to meet women than to ask her to dance – women often go to nightclubs to dance with their friends, but secretly hope some guy will ask them to dance.
Women can be very competitive, so she’ll feel special in front of her friends when you ask her to dance, but not her friend standing next to her.
By the way, if she says no, ask her friend standing next to her!
If you want to get really tricky, when you see to ladies together in a club and one is very pretty and the other is only so-so looking (which is very, very common) ask the so-so looking one to dance.
The pretty one is used to getting all the attention, and will be wondering why you didn’t ask her to dance. Then when you’re done dancing and go back to talk with both of them, don’t be surprised if the pretty one is vying for your attention.
Another example of how to talk to women in clubs and taking advantage of a club environment is good old alcohol.
For centuries, men have been getting women liquored up so that the ladies will drop their inhibitions. When women have some alcohol in them, they’ll say and do things they wouldn’t say or do sober.
Use that to your advantage: after you’ve danced and your having conversation, lead her into some risque territory.
Women hate being bored, so don’t worry too much about offending her. That doesn’t mean “anything goes” but she’s there at the club because she doesn’t want to sit at home bored.
You are contributing to her good time!
Naturally, above all, be confident.
Be sure to check out the other articles here that cover how to convey an aura of confidence and how to bring up sensual or even sexual topics without scaring her away.
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