How Not To Talk To Women
Just as important as how to talk to women is how NOT to talk to women – don’t make these deal blowing mistakes:
What not to do:
1. Don’t make it all about you. Guys are guilty of talking only about themselves, probably because they’re nervous. Don’t be so self-centered that you forget to include her in the conversation.
2. Don’t be negative: women are allergic to negativity. If you’re a depressed kind of guy, you’re going to make her want to run away with your dreary attitude.
3. Don’t be judgmental: similar to being negative, having all the answers and being-all-judgmental-all-the-time is going to bore her to tears.
4. Don’t be boring! If there’s one thing that women really don’t want, it’s being bored. Instead, have some great stories to tell that will keep her entertained.
5. Don’t come across as shy and nervous: shyness may be an appealing quality to some women, but the reality is that that cute-appeal will wear off very, very quickly. Women have an in-born need to feel secure around a guy, so don’t come across as nervous and lacking confidence or she’ll ditch you fast.
photo credit: Simone Ramella
