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So you want to know how to get a girl? Just as important is NOT making this deal-killing mistake!

So you’ve heard your guy-friends or maybe some so-called gurus tell say you’ve got to have game, right?

Hey, there’s nothing wrong with being smooth with the ladies, but guys, a phony, tough guy, “player” facade is completely transparent to most women.

Sincerity goes a long way toward getting the girl. Some girls even find shyness “cute” – so if you’re shy you can use that to your advantage. Be playful about it, you can even make fun of your shyness – “my shy side told me not to come over here and talk to you, but the side of me that would be kicking myself for the rest of my life made me do it…”

You don’t need a script, you get the idea here. Just be “yourself”, have fun, be a bit playful yet aloof too because you don’t want to come across as too eager.

Action step:

Approach one girl today just in a friendly “I don’t really care” kind of way – don’t try to get her phone number, don’t have any goal in mind except being curious to see how she responds.

Remember: she’s a complete stranger and she does not know you at all, so if the response is positive or not-so-positive, do not – repeat, do not – take it personally either way!

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