If you want or need lines to pick up women, this is the article for you.

When it comes to pick up lines, there are two distinct camps:

Those who say you should use them, and those who say you should never use them.

What’s the truth? The truth is that it’s not the pick up lines you use, it’s your attitude when you use them.

And because it’s your attitude that counts much more than the words you actually say, you could do just fine with a great attitude but a crappy pick up line or even no pick up line.

For example: let’s say you walk up to a woman and you say “hey, that’s a really nice dress you’re wearing – but you know what? It would look a lot better on my bedroom floor!”

The success of using a cheesy pick up line like that depends very strongly on not the words you say, but how you say them.

If you say this with bedroom eyes, and a machismo type of attitude, that could very easily just make you come across like some egotistical jerk looking for a one night stand.

On the other hand, if you were to say it with a wry smile and a tongue-in-cheek attitude, she may “get the joke” and laugh with you and feel like you’re making fun of the “pick up artist” type of idiot guy she’s seen a zillion times in the past, and so find your approach cute, funny, and refreshing.

It all depends on your attitude.

You’ve probably heard it said before that “it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it that counts most” – and nowhere is that more true than trying to approach and pick up women.

So when it comes to pick up lines, you don’t really need to memorize a bunch of lines like an actor memorizing a script because it’s not the lines that will work for you, it’s how you deliver those lines.

If you were to say to a woman “hey, your legs must be very tired because you’ve been running through my dreams my whole life” – and you say that like you’re serious! – she’s going to laugh right in your face.

Summary and next steps:

Really, the best pick up line is the one you deliver with a fun and playful attitude, and a good measure of confidence and self-assurance. Here’s more info on how to approach women and use pick up lines with the right attitude.

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