What if you see a woman you’d like to meet or flirt with, but she’s with a friend or two?

There are a number of options open to you at this point:

You can go over and talk directly to the woman you want to meet… she’s probably the prettier one of the two, right?

You could do that, but here’s a perhaps-better tactic:

Flirt with the one you’re not interested in!

Why? Simple.

Because the prettier one is likely the one who usually is getting hit on, and not her less-pretty-than-her friend.

As a side note, maybe that’s why she hangs out with her less-pretty friend; it boosts her self-esteem.

Anyway, it doesn’t matter if you’re interested in the pretty one or not, just start talking to the one you’re not interested in… but this works a little better if she is the pretty one because when you start flirting with her friend, she’ll start to wonder why.

“Hey!“, she’ll be thinking, “I’m the one who usually gets hit on…”

And that should be enough to trigger her natural competitiveness, and she’ll start flirting with you and trying to get your attention.

Bingo! Just what you wanted…

Of course, you have to be willing to nicely excuse yourself if the one you don’t want is suddenly all over you! – Hey, no risk, no reward, right?

Your other choices are to start talking directly to the one you’re interested in, or you could just start flirting with both of them!

Action step:

Go find a pair of women and start talking to the less-hot of the two, and see how the hot one reacts.

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