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How To Flirt With Girls -  A Do-It-Yourself Fast-Start Guide:

In other articles here we’ve already covered the non-verbal aspects of flirting, so we’re not going to repeat that here – we’ll assume you’ve got that part down.

Now let’s get to the what-comes-out-of-your-mouth part.

Rule #1: Give compliments freely, but only sincerely.

Everyone has a built-in BS meter, and so does she. You can lay on the compliments pretty thick but only if you’re sincere about it and not BSing her.

Rule #2: Dont be the center of the universe.

Guys very frequently make the mistake of rambling on forever about themselves. Don’t do that.

Show some interest in her. Ask her what she enjoys in movies, food, vacations, or music.

When she answers, avoid at all costs the undeniable urge you’ll have to give your opinion about what she likes.

Instead, ask more questions that naturally arise – have a genuine sense of being curious about this person, don’t pretend to be curious, actually be curious.

Rule #3: Carry a conversational aid.

Your t-shirt, a button, a piece of jewelry, your watch – all of those things can be conversation starters.

It’s suggested that you not come across as a bragging idiot – instead, have an entertaining or spell-binding story about how you came to own that t-shirt or watch.

Also, look for her conversational aids – she’ll probably have some jewelry, handbag, laptop, book or other item you can ask her about. Ask her if there’s a story behind how she came to own it.

Rule #4: Don’t interrupt, judge, or criticize.

Somehow, girls are just plain allergic to negativity.

You’ll kill her mood to flirt like pouring sand on a fire if you start getting all critical and judgmental.

And if you’re constantly interrupting her that’s going to turn her off.

Rule #5: Be enthusiastic and learn to laugh at yourself.

You don’t have to have completely self-deprecating humor, but if you spill your coffee on your shirt while talking to her, be prepared to laugh it off. Girls like a guy who can laugh at himself and not take himself too seriously.

Finally, show some enthusiasm – that translates into charisma. If you’re showing enthusiasm for your ambitions and plans, she’ll see you as a winner in life, a go-getter… and yes, the ladies love that quality in a man!

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