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If you want to be a flirt, you have plenty of company  – and plenty of opportunity out there.

In fact, that’s step 1 of “how to be a flirt” – recognize that you can flirt almost anywhere; in line at the post office, in a coffee shop, at the dog park, in a grocery store… you get the idea.

A gas station or a deli counter might not seem like the most romantic setting to meet and flirt with the opposite sex, but anyplace you see a nice lady and can catch her eye is the perfect place to flirt.

If you’re not used to flirting or are seriously out of practice, the first thing you want to do is just look around for opportunities to flirt.

But, and this is a big but, don’t make the very common mistake of waiting to flirt only with the most beautiful, attractive, perfect-looking, dream-girl you can find.

Instead, flirt with just about any woman you have the opportunity to flirt with!

Think of this practice as “safe flirting”: you can build up your skill safely by doing a little innocent flirting while you’re out running errands or shopping for groceries or buying new socks at the mall.

Action Step:

To be a flirt you need to think like a flirt: for the next 3 days, just look for opportunities to flirt.

Don’t do any actual flirting, just notice the opportunities, that’s all.

Later you’ll use the other tips and techniques on this site to do some actual flirting, but for now, just start to notice all the many flirting opportunities that are all around you!

Here’s what you need to know to never have fear of rejection ever again:

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