Tips To Approach Women
Looking for tips to approach women? Here’s some hot tips that really work:
Tip #1:
Stop and think about how she’s going to see you – yep, first impressions really do matter.
You’re probably already convinced you look great – and maybe you do – but it’s more likely that your image needs a little polish.
We’re not talking a huge makeover here; just pay more attention to your hair, clothes, and fingernails.
This tip is easy to skip – ignore it at your own peril.
Tip #2:
How are you going to start talking?
You need some fail-safe approaches – fail safe means if you fail, you’re safe. You don’t want to crash and burn and have your ego completely trashed.
So you should always always always start out safe.
If you walk up to women and ask for their phone number, you’re most likely going to be rejected – you’re just some stranger to her.
Sure, there are exceptions, if you have movie-star-good-looks or something, but then why would you be reading this if you did?
So, safe talking means where you’re not at risk. Ask safe, context-specific questions of a girl you want to approach:
Examples:
Coffee shop: “I was thinking of trying a new coffee drink – have you tried the mocha espresso grande decaf peppermint chai latte here?”
Supermarket: “Have you ever tried any of the organic produce at this market?”
On the street: “Excuse me, can you tell me what time it is?”
Safe, safe, safe. No need to worry about being rejected.
Tip #3:
Up the ante if she’s friendly.
That means, after your safe talk approach, if she seems like a total bitch, forget about her.
Who wants to date a miserable excuse for a human being who can’t even be the slightest bit social without being mean? Forget her and move on.
But if she is friendly, turn things up a bit.
Ask her out.
Go on, what’s the worst that could happen? — no, not that.
Just “no”.
Take the chance, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Hey, she may say “yes” and believe me, you’ll be elated!
You could say something like “I have to admit I already know what time it is, I just would have kicked myself later if I didn’t take a chance to meet you”.
Maybe that’s a little cheesy, but girls sometimes like cheesy.
Tip #4:
Act confident even if you don’t feel confident.
Not cocky, not arrogant, not conceited – confident.
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