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If you’re looking for tips on approaching women, you came to the right place. Here’s an article that gives you 3 tips on how to be successful when you do:

How to Approach Women – 3 Tips For Success

Men have been approaching women since the days of Fred and Barney (Flinstones = best cartoon ever, but I digress). But it was much easier then – all you needed to do was club her over the head and drag her to your cave. Ahh, the good ol’ days.

It’s not so easy these days. Beautiful women (even cute ones) have been approached so many times that they have constructed an almost impenetrable outer shell to deflect even the best pickup lines. They’ve heard it all and seen it all. And good guys like you and me, guys that would make great boyfriends and husbands, aren’t even given the chance to apply for the job. Unless you know how.

So how do you get past these defenses? How does a good guy get the chance to meet a gorgeous woman and show here that he can be the man of her dreams?

1. Confidence. Women are drawn to confident men like Britney Spears is drawn to bad relationships. They can’t help it, it is in their genes. Why do you think women are drawn to “bad boys”? Because these jokers are romantic and good providers? NO! Because bad boys are confident by nature. They have that “I don’t give a shit” attitude that women perceive as confidence. Now I’m not saying that you should become a bad boy, that’s a horrible way to live, in my opinion. I just want you to notice the effect of this attitude on women.

Confidence is the key to breaking through the jaded outer shell. It triggers something in her subconscious that opens the door and lets her know that you are a provider and protector. You are husband material. And all of this happens without her even knowing it. Her curiosity is automatically aroused.

2. Say something. Anything. This is a no brainer, but most guys don’t even do it. They formulate some elaborate fantasy as to why he shouldn’t approach. She’s in a relationship, she’s in a hurry, she’s too busy, she seems stuck up, she might have a psychotic ex-boyfriend that will pound me into the ground…… and on and on. Is any of it true? Probably not. But it’s easier to make up excuses than risk getting shot down. I love the smell of rationalization in the morning!

I’ve got a sure fire tip on how to find out if she’s any of those things. ASK HER! No lingering, no excuses. You know what? I guarantee that she will not bite your head off. Remember that outer shell we talked about? Part of it is perfecting a look of “leave me alone”. But the thing is, if you confidently go up to her and say hi, most times that look will disappear.

3. Live an interesting life. All the pickup lines and all routines in the world will have no effect unless there is substance behind the words. Women are attracted to interesting and passionate men. Do you love what you do? Do you like to travel? What are your hobbies? When you talk about yourself, your passion will show, and to a woman, there is nothing more attractive than that.

Peter Anthony

Interested in gaining the confidence that will naturally attract women to you? Check out my blog at http://www.WinningTheWomanOfYourDreams.com.

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Of course, there are tons of tips out there, the bottom line is you need to get up and out and start meeting women, and here’s a step-by-step guide to meeting women now:

photo credit: Tim Green aka atoach

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