If you’re looking for a guide to approaching women, here’s the most direct, simple and effective strategy you will ever find:

No matter how you slice it, no matter how you look at it, no matter how you think about it or talk about it, women find a confident man attractive.

Confidence is almost like a love potion to women.

Ask just about any woman what they want in a man and confidence with be one of the first things they say. Confidence will be on their list.

It’s usually in the top five.

Why is that? Why is confidence so important to women? Why do ladies find a confident man so attractive?

Here’s an example I’m sure you can relate to:

Most guys can remember a time when they knew a lady who had two guys after her. One guy was the “good guy” and the other was the “bad guy”.

The good guy was nice to her. The bad guy, well, wasn’t so nice.

The good guy would take her out on nice dates to dinner and movies and buy her nice gifts.

The good guy would treat her well and be nice to her. But the good guy never got the good stuff he really wanted. He never got her love or affection. No kissing, no touching, and certainly no sex.

Meanwhile, the bad guy was getting all the good stuff from her that the good guy wanted but wasn’t getting.

The bad guy wasn’t taking her out on dates or buying her nice things. In fact, the bad guy seemed to treat her badly. He even disrespected
her.

But, the bad guy was getting all her attention. The bad guy was getting affection, kissing, touching. And yes, thebad guy was getting all the sex, too.

But the good guy was good for her. He treated her well. The bad guy treated her like dirt.

So why did she seem to prefer the bad guy?

Now, some people say it’s because women want to be treated like dirt. Or they say that the bad guy is more exciting than the predictable, boring good guy.

The deeper reason has nothing to do with whether women want to be treated poorly or not; and the deeper reason has nothing to do with whether women want excitement in their lives or not.

The deeper reason has to do with confidence. It’s simple: the bad guy exuded the confidence the good guy didn’t. That’s why he “got the girl” and not the good guy.

Reality: Confidence makes a woman feel good. When you have confidence, a woman feels good around you.

She feels safe and protected. She feels secure.

Have you ever played the part of the good guy sometime in your life?

Many of us shy guys have. So, some people say the simple answer is to just treat girls like dirt. But the fact is that if you do, the only girl who you’ll end up with is girls with low self-esteem.

And you’ll get tired of that pretty quick.

Women with low self-esteem will become a pain in the neck. they’ll be clingy and needy. You may think that sounds good – having someone cling all over you – but pretty soon you’ll feel suffocated.

You’ll feel smothered. you’ll want out. That’s just not a good solution.

There’s a much better solution than treating women like dirt – and that’s exuding high levels of confidence when you approach women.

Here’s a proven step-by-step 30-day guide to approaching women:

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