This is just about the stupidest idea we can think of, and we can think of some pretty darn stupid ideas!

If you’re looking to flirt with women online, you really need to reconsider this… Why?

Because that “hottie” with an online avatar you’re drooling over is probably either some overweight middle-aged weirdo, or some adolescent punk boys with nothing better to do with their time.

Seriously – flirting with women online is just dumb dumb dumb!

Okay, so you’re still reading this and you think that we’re wrong because you’re on one of those online dating sites, so you want some real advice on doing some serious online flirting, right?

Sorry, we’re still not on your side, and with good reason – here’s why:

Because, dude, the picture she put up on that site is 10 years and 10 pounds ago! (that’s about 5 kilos if you’re not in the U.S., okay?)

Seriously, my flirting-challenged-friend, don’t waste time flirting online with this girl only to finally meet her and discover you have less than zero interest in her.

There you are, showing up with flowers ’cause you’ve been fantasizing based on your online flirting, and you take one look at her and want to ditch the flowers in the nearest trash can and run like hell!

Don’t waste your time flirting with women online.

Use the tips techniques skills and strategies you’ll discover on this site and go out and flirt with some women you instantly find attractive out there in the real world.

You’ll be glad you didn’t waste your time flirting online!

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We did answer this question in another article here, but let’s go at this question from a totally different perspective.

Previously we talked about a strategy to use when you’ve got a pair of ladies you want to approach and flirt with.

But, what if there’s three or more women, then what?

If you’ve got enough cojones (look it up) to approach a group of women (many guys are skittish about approaching even one woman) your flirting tactics boil down to the following 2 strategies:

1. Address all the women at once:

Striking up a conversation with a group of women and flirting is not much different than talking to one woman, you’ll ask the same kind of questions you would if you were flirting one-on-one.

The advantage to addressing the group as a whole is that you can then zero in on the one who seems to respond to you best (you’ll have to define what “best” means to you) and then begin to flirt directly with just her.

2. The other main strategy involves speaking directly to the woman you’re interested in and flirting with just her, effectively ignoring the rest of the ladies in the group.

A good suggested approach is a combination of the two: you could approach and say “hello, ladies” (they say hi back) and you follow up with another group comment such as “I couldn’t help but notice you all are having the most fun of any group here” (we’re not scripting you here, just giving you ideas to play with) and then you can zero in on the lady that’s caught your eye with a comment or question just for her: “that outfit really brings out your eyes” or “that’s a very unusual necklace, is there a story behind how you got that?”

Action step:

Try some “safe flirting” with a group of women by approaching a group of women that are not particularly attractive to you; it’s easier for most guys to approach women they’re not interested in versus approaching a group of women who have super-model good-looks.

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In other articles here we’ve already covered the non-verbal aspects of flirting, so we’re not going to repeat that here – we’ll assume you’ve got that part down.

Now let’s get to the what-comes-out-of-your-mouth part.

Rule #1: Give compliments freely, but only sincerely.

Everyone has a built-in BS meter, and so does she. You can lay on the compliments pretty thick but only if you’re sincere about it and not BSing her.

Rule #2: Dont be the center of the universe.

Guys very frequently make the mistake of rambling on forever about themselves. Don’t do that.

Show some interest in her. Ask her what she enjoys in movies, food, vacations, or music.

When she answers, avoid at all costs the undeniable urge you’ll have to give your opinion about what she likes.

Instead, ask more questions that naturally arise – have a genuine sense of being curious about this person, don’t pretend to be curious, actually be curious.

Rule #3: Carry a conversational aid.

Your t-shirt, a button, a piece of jewelry, your watch – all of those things can be conversation starters.

It’s suggested that you not come across as a bragging idiot – instead, have an entertaining or spell-binding story about how you came to own that t-shirt or watch.

Also, look for her conversational aids – she’ll probably have some jewelry, handbag, laptop, book or other item you can ask her about. Ask her if there’s a story behind how she came to own it.

Rule #4: Don’t interrupt, judge, or criticize.

Somehow, girls are just plain allergic to negativity.

You’ll kill her mood to flirt like pouring sand on a fire if you start getting all critical and judgmental.

And if you’re constantly interrupting her that’s going to turn her off.

Rule #5: Be enthusiastic and learn to laugh at yourself.

You don’t have to have completely self-deprecating humor, but if you spill your coffee on your shirt while talking to her, be prepared to laugh it off. Girls like a guy who can laugh at himself and not take himself too seriously.

Finally, show some enthusiasm – that translates into charisma. If you’re showing enthusiasm for your ambitions and plans, she’ll see you as a winner in life, a go-getter… and yes, the ladies love that quality in a man!

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Flirting comes natural to some. To others, they just have no idea how this flirting thing works.

Flirting, at the core, is nothing more than a sense of playfulness.

Than simply means that you should get in touch with or reconnect with your playful, fun side.

Flirting isn’t a set of skills as much as it is a sense of playfulness. Sure, you could try to memorize a routine – turn your head like this, make eye contact for 0.82 seconds, smile with just the left side of your mouth with your face turned at 45 degrees… and that might work, but it’s not very authentic, either.

So first things first: tune in and get a sense of your playful side. Where and when are you spontaneous and fun? As you think of those places and times, imagine you could transport that fun and playful you into the context of flirting with a woman.

So relax and let your body naturally assist you in flirting with a woman:

Let your shoulders relax. Don’t tense up your lips. Put on a small-yet-mischievous smile. Make that peek-a-boo sideways eye contact.

Flirting is not serious business – let the fun & spontaneous side of you come out and play!

The truth about approaching women to flirt:

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Married women, being already “taken”, make for a safe flirting partner because there’s no risk for anyone involved and no real downside to a little innocent flirting with a stranger she’ll likely never see again.

A married woman is still a woman and married women generally like to feel that they are still attractive to the opposite sex. That means your flirtatiousness will very likely be received in a friendly manner, she’ll be open to a little harmless flirting with you.

So it’s a win-win situation: she gets to feel attractive without breaking her marriage vows, and you get to practice your flirting skills without risk of rejection.

One caution: feelings are real. That means that if you flirt with a married woman that you work with (for example) the flirting can get out of control if it gets into a lot of sexual innuendo and such. You both may end up fantasizing about each other and that could lead to more than just innocent flirting.

A better idea might be to restrict your flirting with married women you encounter on a one-time basis, such as at the grocery store.

In fact, grocery stores really are an ideal setting to flirt with married women in a harmless manner.

Look for the tell-tale wedding ring on the ring finger of her left hand.  A diamond ring and/or a wedding band is the obvious give-away of a married women.

She could be picking out some tomatoes, or standing in line next to you waiting to check out. One way to open up the flirting is to pay her an innocent compliment.

For example, you can directly compliment her wedding ring, and follow up with what a “lucky guy” her husband is. This will flatter her, and open the door for a little flirting between the two of you.

Action step:

Go out today to a grocery store to buy something you need. Grab a shopping cart and stroll around looking for a married woman to flirt with, and start flirting!

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There are a number of options open to you at this point:

You can go over and talk directly to the woman you want to meet… she’s probably the prettier one of the two, right?

You could do that, but here’s a perhaps-better tactic:

Flirt with the one you’re not interested in!

Why? Simple.

Because the prettier one is likely the one who usually is getting hit on, and not her less-pretty-than-her friend.

As a side note, maybe that’s why she hangs out with her less-pretty friend; it boosts her self-esteem.

Anyway, it doesn’t matter if you’re interested in the pretty one or not, just start talking to the one you’re not interested in… but this works a little better if she is the pretty one because when you start flirting with her friend, she’ll start to wonder why.

“Hey!“, she’ll be thinking, “I’m the one who usually gets hit on…”

And that should be enough to trigger her natural competitiveness, and she’ll start flirting with you and trying to get your attention.

Bingo! Just what you wanted…

Of course, you have to be willing to nicely excuse yourself if the one you don’t want is suddenly all over you! – Hey, no risk, no reward, right?

Your other choices are to start talking directly to the one you’re interested in, or you could just start flirting with both of them!

Action step:

Go find a pair of women and start talking to the less-hot of the two, and see how the hot one reacts.

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If you see a girl you’d like to meet, the natural first step is to flirt with her

Flirting can be verbal, non-verbal, or a combination of each.

A little non-verbal flirting can give you an idea if a woman is open to you approaching her.

If the two of you make a few passing glances at each other across the room, that’s typically a good signal from her she’s open to your next move.

But guess what? – Girls are already flirting with you and you don’t even know it!

That’s right, Captain Obvious, she’s giving you flirtatious signals, and you’re missing even the glaringly obvious ones.

Like what?

Glad you asked…

Proximity:

If she entered the coffee shop and took the table next to you, she’s sending you a signal.

You’re missing it because you’re a guy, and guys are usually analytical about things.

You figure she took that table for “logical” reasons like it’s where the light is good for her book or there’s a plug nearby for her laptop power cord.

This is where I smack you on the back of the head, and point out she could have sat anywhere else, or gone somewhere else to have her coffee.

But there she is, right next to you.

So the lesson here is, pay attention!

Girls who position themselves in proximity to you want you to start talking to them!

And that’s  a perfect time to inject a little innocent flirting into the conversation.

If she plays along, great!-keep going.

If not, then maybe she did sit there for the light (or maybe you said something stupid to turn her off).

Either way, pay attention to proximity, you’ve been missing obvious signals of openings to flirt!

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First, if you run into a “cougar type” of older woman, you won’t have to do much flirting because she’ll usually be aggressive and pursue you straight-away.

But, if you’ve got your eye on an older woman you know, or have just encountered, you’re going to need to shed your immature tendencies and take on an air of sophistication… at least a little, or else she’ll just see you as a “boy” and not a man.

That means, no goofy comments about you and your frat brothers’ jackass antics.

The safe approach to flirting with older women is low-key, and ask questions.

Most women like to talk anyway, so you can ask her questions about what she likes to do for fun, for example, to keep the conversation light.

Be sure to read the other articles on this site about flirting in general so you know how to use your eyes, your smile, and your non-verbal communication to flirt effectively.

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So you’re new to flirting or maybe you’re newly single and have forgotten how.

Let’s get you started out on the right track with some tips on how to flirt:

Tip #1 -  “The Eyes Have It”:

All flirting starts with a little eye contact.

A little eye contact – you don’t want to stare or give her the “bedroom eyes”, at least not yet.

Initial eye contact for effective flirting is “getting caught” giving her a sideways glance, then playfully looking away.

A sideways glance means you’re not directly facing her, and your head is even slightly cocked at an angle – this denotes playfulness as opposed to staring straight at her which conveys aggressiveness.

Let her catch you glancing at her a couple of times, then move on to the next step, which is our next tip:

Tip #2 – “Smile When You Say That, Stranger!”

After a couple of playful glances, it’s time to add a little smile.

A little smile – this is not the time for some giant, ear to ear grin. You can more directly face her with your smile, but a slight angle away is a little more playful and flirtatious.

Look for her to return the smile.

Tip #3 – “Mirror Mirror on the Wall…”

If you’re not already mirroring her body posture, now’s the time to start.

You and she have been doing a little innocent glancing and smiling, and you want to be sure you’re “non-threatening” in your body language.

Placing your body posture in a “similar but not exact” position conveys to her non-verbally that you are “like her” and people like people who are like themselves.

Now you’re ready to to move to other strategies we cover on this site for approaching her and starting up a conversation.

Here’s how to successfully and fearlessly approach women:

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In fact, that’s step 1 of “how to be a flirt” – recognize that you can flirt almost anywhere; in line at the post office, in a coffee shop, at the dog park, in a grocery store… you get the idea.

A gas station or a deli counter might not seem like the most romantic setting to meet and flirt with the opposite sex, but anyplace you see a nice lady and can catch her eye is the perfect place to flirt.

If you’re not used to flirting or are seriously out of practice, the first thing you want to do is just look around for opportunities to flirt.

But, and this is a big but, don’t make the very common mistake of waiting to flirt only with the most beautiful, attractive, perfect-looking, dream-girl you can find.

Instead, flirt with just about any woman you have the opportunity to flirt with!

Think of this practice as “safe flirting”: you can build up your skill safely by doing a little innocent flirting while you’re out running errands or shopping for groceries or buying new socks at the mall.

Action Step:

To be a flirt you need to think like a flirt: for the next 3 days, just look for opportunities to flirt.

Don’t do any actual flirting, just notice the opportunities, that’s all.

Later you’ll use the other tips and techniques on this site to do some actual flirting, but for now, just start to notice all the many flirting opportunities that are all around you!

Here’s what you need to know to never have fear of rejection ever again:

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